Picture books on difficult topics face a unique challenge: how do they balance explaining the subject clearly while keeping language simple, but not patronising or overly-explicit?
Consumer demand for this category of book means there is a growing list of nuanced titles, ranging from topics such as homosexuality, civil rights, mental health and death. These books serve as milestones in educating young readers about the difficult realities of everyday life. One of the exciting things about this is that no two books deal with a same topic in the same way; while one may gently broach the topic using similes and veiled language, another will be terse and matter of fact.
Two examples of such approaches areThe Dead Bird by Margaret Wise Brown and The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr. Both are picture books discussing death for a similarly aged audience, but tackle the topic in very different ways.
The Dead Bird gives a concise, unemotional account of the funereal practices of burying a dead bird, happened upon by a group of friends. Wise Brown doesn’t shy away from being explicit: the word “dead” is used 17 times in the book. The anatomy of death is portrayed by Wise Brown in a pragmatic tone: “that was the way animals got when they had been dead for some time – cold dead and stone still with no heart beating”. The children are then “glad” they can perform funeral rites for the bird, and bury it among flowers and sing to it “the way grown-up people did when someone died”. They continue to perform these actions on subsequent visits to the park “until they forgot”.
The Dead Bird leaves little room for emotional responses to the dead bird – one could argue that, having had no prior relationship to the bird, there was no sense of grief that could be attributed to the children. Yet, in a book that deals explicitly with death and burials, it is interesting that the only real portrayal of something akin to grief is when the children cry “because their singing was so beautiful and the ferns smelled so sweetly and the bird was dead”.
The Goodbye Book, on the other hand, is a book which deals only with the emotional side of grief. The basis of the goodbye is ambiguous, but through illustration is implied that the goldfish’s friend has died. Through anthropomorphic techniques, the book explores different emotional reactions the reader may have after saying goodbye to someone and not seeing them again; scenarios of low mood, sleeplessness, lack of appetite, sadness and anger take up a page each. Through the goldfish, the reader sees that while grief may feel emotionally overwhelming, they are loved and there is hope for happiness again. While the language is still simple, it focuses entirely on the emotional – the practicalities of death are not discussed.
These are two very different responses to the challenge of portraying death in children’s terms: Todd Parr attempts to help the child navigate their feelings and offer a sense of hopefulness for emotional healing, while Wise Brown presents the practicalities of death perhaps in a move to demystify it and show the child a step-by-step guide to what the mourners do when burying someone. This prompts question: What are the purposes of these books? Are they here to educate the child reader on aspects their guardian aren’t sure how to convey, or do they exist as books which facilitate the difficult conversation between reader and child?
About the Author: Rosie Gailor will begin her PhD study at QMUL this autumn. Her research interests include the novels of Roald Dahl and gendered portrayals of abuse in his works.


